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I knew medicine was where I鈥檇 end up 鈥� but I wanted more than the direct route to being a physician. School can be very black and white, but life is in the gray. I felt fortunate to have a comfortable home and go to good schools; I wanted to experience the gray.

I felt like JVC would help me provide for my patients later 鈥� not just the black and white of being a physician, but everything that comes with really caring for people.

My JVC job helped me become the physician I am; but how I feel about the world 鈥� I learned that through the community at the church where we lived in the convent.

Dominick (left) with some of her fellow JVs in the spring of 2013

Six out of the seven of us JVs were raised Catholic. And it鈥檚 hard not to go to church when you can see it from your kitchen door. Every Sunday, a family cooked breakfast you could buy at church. If we helped, we got a free plate: homecooked Mexican food!

One of the other JVs was the social worker for the church and ran their youth group. We all went, whether they were shooting hoops in the backyard or had a field trip. I coached Catholic Youth Organization basketball. We picked our players up, put them in my LeSabre, took them to the games and back; their parents might not be able to. We were constantly doing stuff with people who we weren鈥檛 necessarily assigned to serve.

I was raised in a quintessential Irish Catholic family. I had no experience with other religions prior to JVC. It was eye-opening from a spiritual standpoint.

Halfway through, we decided to go to a different church to see what it was like. One of the other JVs was placed at a Presbyterian church that ran a teen home. Sometimes, we would go to church there with the teen moms. And we befriended other homes that were similar to JVC, a Mennonite home and an Episcopalian home.

JVC awoke a spirituality in me. I believe in God, and I also believe in social equity and doing good for other people.

I was naive. I found people living in squalor; they live with people who are supposed to be taking care of them, but they鈥檙e not. I learned what people do to survive and why they do the things they do under certain circumstances.

I left JVC with a lot of questions, especially trying to understand why there is inequality in the world. How do I help?

Now I work in St. Clair County [in Illinois]. I feel like I make a better connection with patients because I can understand and empathize with why they鈥檙e doing what they鈥檙e doing. 鈥淲hy aren鈥檛 you taking this medicine? We鈥檝e talked about this.鈥� What I witnessed in JVC helped me understand the why. And then I say, 鈥淟et鈥檚 meet in the middle.鈥�

I didn鈥檛 know what I wanted to do, didn鈥檛 declare a major until I was a junior, and psychology was the only major I could still finish in four years. But what do you do with an undergrad degree in psychology? It doesn鈥檛 rule you out for any job, but it doesn鈥檛 get you many jobs either.

I鈥檇 gone to a Jesuit high school, and I had been big into volunteering. JVC was a way of continuing that while deferring my student loans and giving myself another year to think. I knew I wanted to do something related to assisting people in poverty.

It says a lot that JVC was my first experience working on the issue of homelessness, and I鈥檓 now the founder and CEO of an organization that oversees services for the homeless in greater Cincinnati. It鈥檚 my life鈥檚 work, something that I didn鈥檛 know anything about before JVC.

My very first client was a woman with 10 children, and her utilities were about to be shut off. If you lived in public housing, if utilities got shut off, you got evicted. I had been in Baton Rouge for three days 鈥� and it was my job to figure out how to help her with that serious situation.

Finn (right) and JVC friends in the fall of 1993

I was lucky to live in a house of JVs who took the principles of JVC seriously, particularly living a simple lifestyle. Every one of us came from a reasonably wealthy family; we had credit cards in our pockets we could have dipped into, but we chose not to.

We had 鈥渂lackout night鈥� once a week when we wouldn鈥檛 use electricity. This was partially to lower our bill, but since I was working with people whose utilities had been shut off, it was such a valuable experience. It gave me perspective on the experiences of the people I was trying to serve.

Very hard. We got paid $205 a month, which had to cover everything but rent: our utilities, food, transportation, all entertainment.

I met my now-wife, Julie (Lynn) Finn (DCHS 鈥�93), at SLU. Occasionally, we would meet halfway on weekends while I was in JVC. To do this, I had to sell my blood plasma for gas money. Again, a perspective on poverty I never would have had otherwise.

The other JVs I served with, all three are in education and one is also an Episcopal deacon. Each of us went into a profession in which we are more concerned about helping others than making a bunch of money. It鈥檚 hard to know if that鈥檚 JVC鈥檚 impact on people or if those are the people that go into JVC 鈥� but no doubt JVC helped make us who we are.

JVC is an incredible short-term opportunity to do something you鈥檒l never be able to do so easily later 鈥� a chance to broaden your perspective on what you will do with the rest of your life.

Whatever else you鈥檙e going to do, it can wait a year.

I found out about the Jesuit Volunteer Corps in high school, and then it was always in the back of my brain. When I was a sophomore at SLU, I went to the Ignatian Family Teach-In and got to lobby the U.S. Congress. My junior year, I started thinking, maybe this is something for after graduation; I don鈥檛 think I鈥檓 ready to go to grad school or to work. I鈥檇 been part of SLU鈥檚 service-oriented Micah Program learning community, and I鈥檇 done a lot of service at SLU 鈥� that was something I wanted to continue. And I鈥檝e always been passionate about immigrant rights and migration to the United States.

Eye-opening. I鈥檓 first generation American, half Filipino, half Guatemalan. My parents were immigrants. It was interesting to see people who have the same ethnic background as mine come to the United States. I went into JVC bright-eyed and bushytailed, and then got into some tough stuff. Specifically, the women, the domestic abuse they endured ... I was not prepared for that. I would translate documents and read horrific stuff that people had gone through, gaining really intimate knowledge of people I didn鈥檛 know. It was challenging.

Garcia (top right) and fellow volunteers in 2019

My community lived on the third and fourth floors of an old convent. We each got a room of our own, and we had a rooftop we could see Yankee Stadium from. It followed the JVC value of simple living, but it was still such a cool opportunity. I won鈥檛 ever be able to live in New York rent-free again!

Living in community 鈥� those are the most intimate moments you have with people. Eight people is a lot for an intentional community, but every night, we made the effort to have a meal together. We had different schedules and were coming from different parts of New York, so we鈥檇 all have dinner at 9 p.m. It was nice to come home to people who knew what you were going through because no one else could; most of our friends were working or in school. But we had each other to lean on through tough days.

Because we were in New York during the beginning of the pandemic, only five of us ended up staying the whole year. We stayed in the house most of the time 鈥� but luckily, we had the roof to go up to for fresh air. We built a lot of trust to support one another through that year.

One of the attorneys I worked for texted me not long ago: 鈥淩emember that application you prepped right before COVID-19?鈥� I remember it vividly. It was announced that COVID was happening and that we may have to be gone for like two weeks. But the attorney wanted to get this application in, just in case. I stayed late to help, and I delivered it to the immigration office. And it finally got approved! The person received asylum, which is amazing. And the fact that the attorney circled back with me 鈥� it meant a lot.

Originally, I applied as a backup. The only graduate program I was interested in was at MIT, and I knew it was a bad idea to have just one risky option.

However, the more I learned about JVC, the more taken with it I became. When else would I have the opportunity and the flexibility to take a year and learn so much about the social justice issues in our country 鈥� the real dynamics and realities on the ground?

I was offered a scholarship at MIT but deferred it because I felt like JVC was something I needed to do.

I鈥檇 always felt a call and obligation to serve. And I wrestled with how to balance that with my passion for engineering and where my life seemed to be headed.

This felt like a unique opportunity to explore that other path in a temporary setting. I鈥檇 done co-op programs 鈥� stints at NASA facilities, having a hands-on, immersive experience. And now I had the chance to have that type of experience in a service environment.

I figured I should at least explore it: Is this actually more of my vocation than I thought? It was kind of a discernment process for me, in the classic Ignatian tradition.

Grindle (third from top) and fellow JVs in 2006

Challenging but in a way that was, generally speaking, very healthy. Living with others and learning how to navigate compromise is hard. It鈥檚 actually great training for marriage 鈥� or any relationship! Personal growth is hard. It means learning things about yourself that you might not like or expect. Learning how policy and government affect people is also hard. It can be depressing, sad, difficult. But closing one鈥檚 eyes and staying away? I would argue that鈥檚 much worse.

I鈥檓 in a very different place in my life today than I ever imagined I would be, in significant part because of my JV experience.

I did go on to MIT to do a dual-degree master鈥檚 in aerospace engineering and public policy. But I had this even deeper interest in the importance of public policy to address social justice challenges. Long story short, while I was at MIT, new career opportunities came into my field of vision, including this world of strategy and management consulting for social-impact organizations.

I served on the Jesuit Volunteer Corps national board for several years, and one of the other JVs on the board was a Goldman Sachs executive. He said, 鈥淲hen I鈥檓 hiring, this kind of experience is incredibly valuable and really sets applicants apart.鈥� If I could do one thing to improve the U.S., it would be to have a mandatory year of service for everybody, where people are put in a place and with people who are different from them and where they come from. That lived experience 鈥� it鈥檚 phenomenal.

There is no better holistic opportunity to form yourself as a citizen of this country and this world as JVC offers.